Gods, this is so true. I understand how hard it is to be still in transition towards what you feel you want to be (or are, in the case of transexual). Still, labels are a double ended sword. They offer clarity but they also offer complacensy if you dont become aware of the label owning you (rather than the other way around.).
This has been a repeated affair, and it’s gotten to the point where I need to write something out on it. I’ve found that some of my transexual friends are so focused on being in the process of switching genders, or hard line identifiying as transsexual that they loose sight of themselves as a…